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if you think the relationship won't last why have sex with him and do you want to have a child by him too?? for me that's an easy thing to figure out just don't do it

I'm in a long distance relationship becasue i moved away from my boyfriend. I am going to meet him in his town this weekend and he said were gonna hve sex in a vacant field from 5pm on friday till 5am on sunday with no protection. I want the sex but i'm not sure if our relationship will last. What should i do? and don't give me any do what you want to do crap

if you think the relationship won't last why have sex with him and do you want to have a child by him too?? for me that's an easy thing to figure out just don't do it

if anything use protection and it all depends on how he acts when you were around and how he acts when you tlk to him

no sex without protection

... Well obviously it's already sending up red flags for you. Follow your instinct, apparently it says don't do it.

I was in a situation EXACTLY like yours. I chose NOT to give him my virginity. Because I didn't, he freaked out and started acting like a jerk. Personally I'm glad I didn't, because that just showed me how immature and useless he was.

When I DID lose my virginity, there was no schedule and there was no pressure. I felt secure, loved and respected. The guy I lost my virginity to... we are still together today 9 years later. =)

If I were you, I'd wait until you feel comfortable and not pressured. ESPECIALLY if he's saying "no protection"... that's just stupid.

Don't do it. In a field? Make that cheap *** bastard get a room or something.

If you have spanish-english translator read this from a boy

http://es.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Asd1iaLS.pg_owhHCc5aTJQqJRV.;_ylv=3?qid=20100630140221AA2aKh8


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1.- NO PROTECTION, THEN YOU GET PREGNANT

2.- NOT TO LAST LONGER, THEN YOU WILL FEEL SAD THAT YOU BLEED WITH A GUY WHO DIN'T REALLY DESERVE IT, AND WHEN YOU FIND THE REAL MAN YOU WILL CRY TOO MUCH

3.- IN A FIELD, HAHAHA, HE EVEN CANNOT PAY A HOTEL ROOM? HOW ABOUT YOU PREGNANT, YOUR PARENTS WILL PAY FOR YOUR BIRTHCHILD

4.-YOU ARE TOO YOUNG AND IF YOU PLAIN THAT HE WILL STAY WITH YOU AFTER THIS, WELL, A FIELD IS THE WORSE PLACE TO LOOSE VIRGINESS, IS COLD, FLIES, AND HE ASK YOU MAKE IT THERE CAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT PEOPLE KNOWS WHO MADE TROUBLE IF YOU GET PREGNANT.

5.- ONE DAY YOU WILL GET MARRIED AND YOUR HUSBAND WILL ALWAYS REMAIN YOU "MAYBE YOU WERE A WHORE BEFORE OF ME" KEEP YOUR VIRGINESS UNTIL YOU BE REALLY SURE, IF YOU FEEL HORNY, PLEASE JUST MAKE BY YOURSELF ( MASTURBATE ) BUT DON'T PLAY WITH PENNIS. OR YOU WANT POEPLE TREAT AS A WHORE AFTER THAT? PROBLEM IS NOT PEOPLE TREAT YOU SO, PROBLEM IS THAT YOU RESPECT YOUR VIRGINESS AS I CAN SEE, AND FOR YOU WILL BE DIFICULT TO FORGIVE YOURSELF AFTER THIS.

your nt ready yet. becuase if u were u wouldnt be asking. i think u should wait a little longer until u no its going to last.

Are you freakin' nuts????? Your post has to be a bad joke!
First off, if your LD boyfriend knows you're coming to spend time with him, if you are insistent upon having sex with him, DEMAND that he get a motel room... DO NOT allow him to be cheap and degrading to you by laying you out in the middle of some field... can't say I haven't done it, but that was for the purpose of variety, not because my BF didn't want to kick out the dough for a room.
Secondly, and this should not be an option- INSIST upon protection- I mean condoms for him and an additional source of protection for yourself, such as BC pills or spermicidal foam/gel. Stop and think, sweetie.... unprotected sex can lead to diseases that are gross and make you feel disgusting, and how much would it affect your life if you got something like herpes that does not go away???? You're a teenager and could be stuck with a disease for the rest of your life that would impact every sexual partner you have from this point forward and could complicate any pregnancies you might want to have in your later years. Oh, and what about pregnancy??? Are you really ready to be a teenage mommy? You can't put a baby on a shelf when you want to go spend the night at your girlfriend's house or go to the movies... a baby is a LONG TERM COMMITMENT. If you don't even know if the relationship is going to last, why would you even consider risking a potential pregnancy or disease? If your boyfriend cares about you, he should be the one insisting on protection. If he refuses protection, you should refuse the sex. Get into the habit NOW of ALWAYS using condoms and don't rely on a guy to have them on hand- keep some with you so there is NO reason for him to refuse.
As a teenager, you have your whole life ahead of you. Learn how to respect yourself now and teach others how to respect you as well. Don't regret making decisions that will follow you around your whole life, for a boy that probably won't be around for more than another year or two (tops)...

Definitely NOT sex without protection.