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Im having sex for the first time?

Postby caolan » Thu Sep 02, 2010 3:33 am

Definitely NOT sex without protection.
dont do it, he sounds dangerous
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Postby theron » Thu Sep 02, 2010 3:51 am

Sex in a vacant field sounds a bit creepy. If he shows up with a a gun, a shovel, and a bag of dirt i would run away if i were you.
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Postby vimal14 » Thu Sep 02, 2010 3:59 am

umm.. well it sounds like he is forcing you! and use protection. you can't just do everything to make him happy. make your self happy and do whats best for you, and if you feel like your not ready, maybe you should tell him and he might just understand. my boyfriend did
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Postby muireach89 » Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:07 am

Thats so weird.
You shouldnt plan when your gonna have sex. It should come naturaly.. But anways I think you shouldnt. Thats all he wants from you. But Since YOU also want to have sex with him go ahead.

But USE PROTECTION!!

Cuz If You Get Preganate Do You Think He Will Go Out Where You Live And Move In With You..?? Is He Ready For A Family
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Postby waldemarr » Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:10 am

so the first time you have sex you're planning to have sex for two days with no protection, in a field...

I think you need to learn to be a bit more realistic and/or plan how you'll care for the baby before attempting to move your relationship to the next stage.

And if you're not sure your relationship will last, then that is no good reason to be having sex for the first time....
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Postby sparke » Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:21 am

I highly, completely and utterly agree with yvonne H. Do not have sex with this boy, please, I do not want you to get hurt. Please don't do it.
And anytime you are going to do it, use protection.
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Postby trent » Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:23 am

You are going to do what you are going to do no matter what people say,but my 2 cents?....You said that you don't know if your relationship will last..That is a huge red flag right there to say no.You have to ask yourself this: "Do I want to lose my virginity to someone I don't think I will have a future relationship with?" and if it was me,I would be asking myself,"Why did he say with no protection? Doesn't he care about me getting pregnant or an STD?" Then I would think,"Of course he doesn't wanna use protection.He knows that I am a virgin and he couldn't catch anything from me,but I could catch something from him and I could get pregnant."
Sounds to me like this guy just wants sex and he knows that he won't have to see you again after you give it up to him cuz you moved.So,I would absolutely say no and move on to find someone who will love me whether I have sex with him or not.
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Postby buchanan53 » Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:37 am

Don't have sex without protection... If you really, really want to have sex knowing that your relationship won't last and you're okay with that, then fine, do it. Just get the Plan B pill so you can take it right after. You can get it at a pharmacy like CVS with a photo ID and you need to be at least 17.

Personally, I wouldn't do it because he just wants sex from you. But if you're okay with that and you want to, then go ahead.
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Postby bud20 » Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:43 am

Don't have sex without protection... If you really, really want to have sex knowing that your relationship won't last and you're okay with that, then fine, do it. Just get the Plan B pill so you can take it right after. You can get it at a pharmacy like CVS with a photo ID and you need to be at least 17.

Personally, I wouldn't do it because he just wants sex from you. But if you're okay with that and you want to, then go ahead.
I personally would want to make sure he wears protection.
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Postby wise » Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:56 am

Dont do it, i dont know anything about u and ur relationship with him but why woulf u go and have sex in a field for 12 hours with a boy that u might not trust, and ainceur having a long distance relationship, who knows but he might be cheating on u, would u trust him? Plus the no protection part might not be a good idea.
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