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Alright, I feel a bit rood putting this detail on here, but me and my boyfriend have known eachother for three months and have only started going out 2 weeks ago. He is the most amazing guy ever, and we are like bestfriends ! But it's weird because we never talk about sex. We never talk about us doing anything like that. We feel like we are right for eachother, but none of us have brought it up?
I haven't brought it up because I like it how it feels right, and if I say something I think it will start to feel dodgy? Like I want a relationship were sex isn't the main thing. I'm a virgin and I don't want to loose my virginity until I'm married and have my life soughted out. I'm 15 now and he's 18. I know it's illegal for us to be together but I don't give a toss :) because it feels so right!
Yesterday he fingered me, and i gave him a handjob, but we never said anything about it afterwoods!
Why aren't we talking about it? Our relationship feels so right though, and we can tell eachother everything, but why is it like this ? And should I bring it up?
Thanks to everyone who helps! :)

Alright, I feel a bit rood putting this detail on here, but me and my boyfriend have known eachother for three months and have only started going out 2 weeks ago. He is the most amazing guy ever, and we are like bestfriends ! But it's weird because we never talk about sex. We never talk about us doing anything like that. We feel like we are right for eachother, but none of us have brought it up?
I haven't brought it up because I like it how it feels right, and if I say something I think it will start to feel dodgy? Like I want a relationship were sex isn't the main thing. I'm a virgin and I don't want to loose my virginity until I'm married and have my life soughted out. I'm 15 now and he's 18. I know it's illegal for us to be together but I don't give a toss :) because it feels so right!
Yesterday he fingered me, and i gave him a handjob, but we never said anything about it afterwoods!
Why aren't we talking about it? Our relationship feels so right though, and we can tell eachother everything, but why is it like this ? And should I bring it up?
Thanks to everyone who helps! :)

If you don't want to hear "your to young to be thinking about that stuff", then at least remember to use a condom. And you should never bring it up. That will come across to him as an easy lay. Easy girls are really hard to take seriously.

Maybe he just want to protect you until you get more close in your relationship even though you think its at its peak now.

Sound like a kind man really. You should value it.

But it could hurt to bring it up either!

Goodluck

you both are probably shy and ashamed, but still are daring and want to please eachother. its uncomfortable to talk about it, but if it bothers you, i would bring it up..

I think as you get older you will realise that there will be less of a need to talk about sex. Sex in a relationship when you are older is just assumed.

If you do feel the need to talk about it, maybe you could bring it up by saying "I really enjoyed that" and hopefully it would go from there.

You have try and hint it to him.

You have try and hint it to him.

I was EXACTLY the same with my boyfriend when we started dating. We didn't talk about sex either, except to say that we both didn't want it until we were ready. You have to take into account you have only been together for 2 weeks. That isn't a long time. Don't worry, once you've been with him for a while you won't feel so weird about it. And if your relationship feels right at the moment, you don't even need to worry about it! :)

You are under age. He is taking a huge risk hoping you offer it to him. Tell him your beliefs and you will find out how wonderful he is. Don't lead him on. Just because there isn't penetration doesn't mean its not sex. But sounds like there was penetration with something? You'll be hurt, he'll be in trouble, too many problems. He knows its wrong. Find someone your age and go to the movies.