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I'll admit, sometimes the sex is so good and you feel amazing and I just can not last longer than 2 to 3 minutes. But there are times that I've been in there for at least 10-20 minutes, different positions and everything, and the woman can't reach orgasm. I need you to try harder. I look at it as a race and whoever gets to the finish line first is the winner. lol No, but really. I used to resort to oral sex when I thought I needed to help my girl get to that point after I have. But that usually just makes her want to go for another round a lot sooner. What's the trick to please these women now a days? I read somewhere that women, once upon a time, did not even expect to have an orgasm, they just enjoyed sex. if they got one, great, if not, better luck next time. Well, I'd like to please my woman, but I need to find a way to not feel like a looser when I can't do it for her. She asks me to turn it back on like it's a device or something. lol

I'll admit, sometimes the sex is so good and you feel amazing and I just can not last longer than 2 to 3 minutes. But there are times that I've been in there for at least 10-20 minutes, different positions and everything, and the woman can't reach orgasm. I need you to try harder. I look at it as a race and whoever gets to the finish line first is the winner. lol No, but really. I used to resort to oral sex when I thought I needed to help my girl get to that point after I have. But that usually just makes her want to go for another round a lot sooner. What's the trick to please these women now a days? I read somewhere that women, once upon a time, did not even expect to have an orgasm, they just enjoyed sex. if they got one, great, if not, better luck next time. Well, I'd like to please my woman, but I need to find a way to not feel like a looser when I can't do it for her. She asks me to turn it back on like it's a device or something. lol

Let her be on top. Then she can move in whatever way she needs to enjoy herself the most.

10 - 20 minutes isn't enough for many women. Many need 30 - 45. That's just the way it is.

The biggest turn off these days is how men are so overly concerned with the female orgasm that sex is not relaxing anymore. It's like "okay two minutes go by, did you orgasm yet? Omg if you don't that means I'm a bad person, omg I'm a loser"

Women also need emotions to reach orgasm that's why they have to get warmed up a bit, and sex with emotional pressure to perform and "hurry up" can actually keep one from happening.

Try longer foreplay. And ignore the media about the pressure to make woman orgasm or you suck at sex. That's not true.
Women do not orgasm all the time every time. They're kind of the opposite than men. The longer they've gone without sex, the longer it takes to orgasm. On the other hand the more sex they have the faster it is to orgasm... but it's also a very mental thing that woman need.

Hahaha you suck in bed :)

me and my boyfriend can have sex for hours and its heaps fun/hot.


don't blame it on the girl ;) i can come in under 10 minutes if i wanted to - but its not a race, its about hot sexy fun..


ya suck.

im with Angie. Unfortunately the quickie is ususally only beneficial to the guy. Not to say 10 -20 is a quickie, but its just not long enuff for most woman to orgasm.

Think of it this way: Men are like microwaves, and women are more like ovens.

Women often need to be "pre-heated" (foreplay) to get them ready, but once they're warmed up, they are ready for a LONG burn. Guys, on the other hand, can start hot right away, then cool off just as quickly.

My advice? Use that initial drive of yours to pay attention to her and only her. Enjoy heating her up. Delay your own needs. Once she's hot, push that "Start" button of yours and have a great time! :)