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He will be very insecure about that issue no matter what. Suggest he gets some Viagra and tease him net time he can't get it up . I would.

Have him see a doctor for evaluation and maybe a prescription of Viagra will help him out.

tell him age isnt nothing but a number and you love him not his .....as for the problem there are medications out there that help with the erection problem

Well you can't really, his self esteem is quite shattered, plus he wants to have 'sex' and feels like 50% of the relationship just fell through the roof - get him some viagra (it will help him get erect and get his drive back - and i dont mean just sex drive), also complement the viagra with what you jus told all of us.

Well you can't really, his self esteem is quite shattered, plus he wants to have 'sex' and feels like 50% of the relationship just fell through the roof - get him some viagra (it will help him get erect and get his drive back - and i dont mean just sex drive), also complement the viagra with what you jus told all of us.

If he's having problems with erection then he should see his doctor about this. Erectile dysfunction is a common problem with older men and there are treatments for it. Men can sometimes be embarrassed about seeking help for this but reassure him that it's a common problem. Also, keep letting him know that you love him and how important he is to you. No one can be told this often enough. I think it's great that you're so supportive of him and want to help him with this.

As long as you're together, it will always be an issue. He's 20 years older so his body and its functions will continue to go downhill. People who are together that are close in age can deal with this better.

monkey69,

I'm currently 25 years old. When i was 20, i dated a man who was 40. Our relationship was good, despite age difference. I'm currently dating a man a few years younger than I am, and we are planning to be married. At one point in my life, the idea of sex was very important to me. One day, during a gathering at my home, the group got into some conversation about sex and a gentleman commented "it isn't THAT important is it?" and that very comment affected my life.
Sex isn't the most important part of a relationship... as a matter of fact, if we aren't trying to reproduce, it isn't essential at all. While sex can be comforting and a bonding part of a relationship, the activities that a couple participate in together can have a far more profound kind of support for the relationship. Couples stay together when family is more important than sex. The values of family can be far more supportive than the values of sex alone.

look be careful i went through the same thing if u don't do this right he will leave u so say tell him u love him an then tell him what u just told the world and then tell him u love him again and hope 4 the best. and get some good sex tips and viarga

If he is bothered ask him if he would be interested in seeing a doctor for a prescription of a viagra type medicine.

Miss New Booty and Art the Wise are both right..if you told him what you just told us and he doesn't believe you, the relationship isn't going to work anyway. Relationships are built on trust. Words don't really mean much to most people unless they're followed by actions..and this may take awhile! If all this doesn't work and he still has trouble believing, you can either move on and find someone that trusts your love, or if you can't bring yourself to leave him, talk to him about getting some Viagra. It has changed many relationships. M A N Y! Good Luck!