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i don't know what the right thing is, because i'm not a parent.
i think that if i was i wouldn't have a problem with that.

your the boss and no means no and you should also smack him in the face for kissing at the age of 12 >:(

If it makes you feel uncomfortable having his friend over while no one is at home with them, then I think you should say that you are fine with his friend coming over while someone else is there, but not while the two of them are home alone. Ask him to his face in a non angered or judgmental tone, "What is going on with that empty box of condoms I found in your bedroom?". I am not going to leave the two of you alone while no one is home until midnight,sorry, but I'm just not okay with that. Talk to him in a very calm and understanding voice, do not raise your voice at all. I hope it all goes well for you.

well my gay friends would have sex with boys when they were 14. They are having sex. As a parent, we try to stop minors from having sex with each other, but it really is hard to stop because they find a way to do it. You can either talk to him and tell him you just don't want him to be having sex at such a young age, but don't make it sound like it is because he is bi. You don't want to push him away or have him feel uncomfortable that he is bi. You have to just tell him that he is too young for sex, but in my honest opinion it will not change his behavior. People choose what they want to do. Young teens will have sex even if their parents do everything in their power to stop it. As a parent, you have to protect him too. I think it is safe because he won't get anyone pregnant if he is with men. Make sure he has safe sex. I don't think his sexuality will adjust or change, so I would let him do his thing, but maybe don't let him do it at your house and have him go to his friend's house? Unless you don't mind knowing that stuff will go on in your house.

ask him if he is going to have sex with his friend. if so tell him it is fine with you.
P.S. make sure he and his friend use condoms else he might het an STD. but since their so young i highly dout (excuse my spelling) either has one.STD i mean.
dont treat him any differently he just told you his most closly guarded secret he might still be in shock from saying that to you. he is fragile at this moment in time so be gentle with all this

Tell him that he is not allowed to have sex until he has the appropriate age. That is really your responsibility as a parent. Tell him you will allow him to have the sleepover, but if you find out that he is having sex, he will never ever be allowed to have sleepovers with that friend. I think this is what is correct. Tell him that you allow him to have the sleepover, but your decision is not made without reservations. And you only allow the sleepover because you trust him to do the right thing. Let him know that you don't feel comfortable of your decision, but your allowing him to do it because want him to have a normal life as a teenager. Its your responsibility as a parent, to give him a hard time about it. The bottom line of all this is: is the sleepover going to be a healthy experience for your son or not? And you go from there. What does your heart tell you?

12?! I hope you've confronted him on the condoms, because either way it's probably good time to have a sex talk with him--as there are also differences between relationships with men and women.
Maybe you should say no this time, but offer another time when somebody can be in the house all evening and check in on them every so often to make sure nothings going on? And if they seem a little more intimate then just friends, then hopefully your son will realise why he's not allowed more sleepovers with just him.

Well your son is homosexual. Not bisexual, and if his best friends is gay you should confront him about this, and if you found a box of empty condoms then you have your evidence. Don't let them sleep over anymore.

If they are in a relationship fine. Does the other parents know about this? Have you talked to them about it? If this was a girl and he was interested in girls you wouldn't allow her to stay over?

ahhh. quite the situation that you have here. my recomendation would be to tal;k to your son about sex and tell him that 12 is too early and that he might not fully understand it. another decision is to place a camera in his room to see if they will have sex or not. but by all means do not say no. because if you do, the friend will definitely assume that you are treating him differently just because he is gay. personally i wud do the camera method and then talk to your son after the friend has left the next morning.

Did you allow girls to come over at that time when you thought he was straight? If not, then I suggest you say no, especially considering that his "best friend" is gay, that makes it a whole lot different, because he's an "option" if you know what I mean. It sucks for you, bro, I would hate to be in that position. Personally, I'd say F-No!!!

Lol @ the "bison" joke, hahaha.