Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Anything to do with sex. The webs hottest open discussion forum related to sex. Ask anything you want! Post some thoughts, and meet other people!

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby tennyson » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:18 am

I am 15, my mother seems to think im having sex which im not. I told her i would take a pregnancy test just to prove her wrong cause she also asked me if i was pregnant because i've been really hungry and im breaking out. Also, because i just got my first boyfriend. We haven't had sex though, and i don't plan on doing that anytime soon. She read my diary (even though she didn't admit it) she hinted it out, and i wrote about having my first orgasm due to self penetration. Honestly, i don't see anything wrong with me doing that, im doing it myself, not with my boyfriend. I have always had my mothers trust, but not lately. Also, i bought my first thong, just to see what it felt like, and my mom found it and claimed to be 'disappointed' in me, and that she didn't know i was 'perverted' and 'curious' she acts as if im some porn star. Am i crazy, or is she just being over dramatic. If im doing something wrong, please tell me. Also, ive tried talking to her, and she just shuts me out and say "Yeah, whatever" like she doesn't believe her and its to the point that she makes me feel like a slut,
tennyson
 
Posts: 15
Joined: Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:12 am

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby ffodor » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:20 am

WHAT THE HELL?!?!?! she is overreacting!
ffodor
 
Posts: 10
Joined: Tue Dec 08, 2009 3:29 pm

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby farren12 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:29 am

There's nothing wrong with masturbation, wearing thongs, etc. I know a lot of people that started doing those sorts of things way before they were 15, she should be proud that you didn't start that stuff until recently, not angry that you are now. You are not a slut, trust me, I know sluts.
farren12
 
Posts: 26
Joined: Wed Nov 18, 2009 7:09 pm

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby faine58 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:31 am

There's nothing wrong with masturbation, wearing thongs, etc. I know a lot of people that started doing those sorts of things way before they were 15, she should be proud that you didn't start that stuff until recently, not angry that you are now. You are not a slut, trust me, I know sluts.
Since she keeps interupting you, e-mail her. She can't interupt you during an e-mail. When you write your e-mail, make sure your point is proven, but don't give her attitude. Make it a real, serious e-mail that comes from the heart and try to explain to her that you aren't pregnant and she doesn't need to worry about anything.

Goodluck?
faine58
 
Posts: 18
Joined: Mon Nov 23, 2009 6:48 am

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby waldemarr » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:37 am

Your growing up to fast.First of all,Don't act like a slut by buying your first thong and doing the self penetration thing.Your only 15!And thats nasty,Why do you even wanna get involved in the sexual stuff?Have you seen 16 and Pregnant?You wanna get like those girls?And talk to your mom about it,then she won't think that your having sex already.Your only 15!
waldemarr
 
Posts: 18
Joined: Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:13 am

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby seiji76 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:38 am

You shouldn't feel like a slut.. especially since you know that you didnt do any of these things. Your mom is overreacting shes probably just realizing that you're growing up and she misses you being a little kid. Don't worry she will get over it soon. Just don't make any stupid choices :)
seiji76
 
Posts: 29
Joined: Tue Nov 17, 2009 9:11 pm

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby falken » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:43 am

She's over-reacting!
Have as many orgasms as you want, self penetration or with your boyfriend

As far as the thong thing goes, she's crazy


Tell her you aksked this question on the internet, might make her see sence


PS - Facebook me, Billy Moon - Parachuting Picture - UK
falken
 
Posts: 15
Joined: Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:12 am

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby braemwiella » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:49 am

you are not a slut. your a girl going through puberty, you are curious and you have hormones. tell your mom how much she i hurting your feelings. and having a boyfriend is perfectly natural. and if your mom is this worried she was probly a slut at your age. i hope this helps!

answer mine please - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Alc3m6hz1b08e18.TXGQQJTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100205194726AApyQeL
braemwiella
 
Posts: 10
Joined: Wed Nov 25, 2009 6:42 am

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby basilio » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:53 am

No disrespect but your mother is WAY overacting... she should now this is a teenage process and it is completely normal for you to buy thongs/self-pleasure your self. You're just gonna have to sit her down talk to her, let her know how you feel. She once was a teenager so she will understand. Good luck
basilio
 
Posts: 15
Joined: Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:13 am

Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby slayton » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:55 am

i really dont think ur growing up too fast.
i think ur moms just worried about loosing her little girl since ur just growing up.
i think what you should do if u want her to talk to you again is to
show her your ur still her little girl and u always will be!
im sure shell be happy ;)
slayton
 
Posts: 12
Joined: Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:12 am

Next

Return to General sex talk

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest

cron