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If she read your diary, she knows you are having sexual feelings and it embarrasses her. You are her baby girl. She doesn't like that you're growing up. I think it is cute.

If she read your diary, she knows you are having sexual feelings and it embarrasses her. You are her baby girl. She doesn't like that you're growing up. I think it is cute.

Um I would just be pissed that my mom way looking in all my stuff. If you aren't sleeping around you aren't a slut. I would be more mad at her. Reading your diary is a violation of your space.

ignore her. my moms lik that to but al i do is jus ignore her. when she takes your stuff just go grab it and dont fight her. she will fuss more just go to your room and listen to music. and no your not doing anything wrong

Your responsable for your own feelings!

Ask her what she is so worried about, and if that does not work tell her she is a WORRYWART!

Laugh it off...

Sounds normal for 15 to me. If anything, you sound mature in a good way.

she over racting with everything besides the thong u shudn wear them when your 15 besides that shes over reacting

Your mother is probably acting on impulse and not really thinking everything through. If you are an only child or the youngest she's most definately having trouble letting go of your childhood and her youth.

You didn't do anything wrong. It's natural for girls to be curious and experiment. But at the same time this is shocking to hear about your own daughter.

I don't know if she read your diary. I've always been undecided about something like that. It is your privacy but if i suspected something sinister was going on with my kid I'd probably do the same thing. The difference is you aren't doing anything sinister.

She's made a few mistakes but try and remember that learning this stuff about your own daughter is VERY difficult on a parent.

Also when I was your age my mom an I were at each other's throats. She, like your mom over reacted X100 and jumped to crazy conclusions and no matter how many times i said I didn't do it, she didn't believe me.

Now I'm 30 and when my mom and I remenise about that time and she hears how far off she was we laugh about it.

Just get through the phase and remember that in 10 years your mom and you will be sipping on a glass of wine over dinner and laughing about this very part of your childhood. I promise.

You need to let your mom know that this is the time when everyone needs to explore their sexuality and identity. Your mom may not like the things youre doing, but its all about discovery. Theres nothing wrong with wearing thongs or having a boyfriend, but there is something wrong about betraying someones trust by reading their diary. your mom crossed a boundary, so you should make it clear you are disappointed in her as much as she is disappointed in you. My guess is that youre either an only child or the youngest, or atleast the youngest girl in your family..?
maybe not, but it is typical of parents to be over protective, and to feel sad because all their children ar grown.
if she won't talk to you, you should try writing her a letter to express how you feel and how she needs to realize that youre growing up, and let her know that if she wants to talk, youre open and ready. good luck :)

Your mom's probably just uncomfortable with talking to you about that stuff (like most moms are). I literally never had the "sex talk" with my mom. If i were you I wouldn't give her any reason to doubt your trust, and hopefully she'll come around. I lost my virginity at 15 (im almost 20 now, and still with the same guy) but I still regret loosing it that early, so try and make good decisions and I'm sure your mom will respect that. Good luck

your being a normal 15 year old-- Are you an only child, her first girl or the oldest one she has? Is either is so, she jut doesn't know how to handle it. Its always weird for your mother to see there kids having new, more adult experiences, (or clothes.)

Your not doing anything wrong, just maybe reassure her of that and try to keep your things hidden better (: