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he's 24 and has impotence problems from the usage of steroids(or so he blames it on that), we fight all the time, he throws tantrums,insecure,can't ever sit still, very immature and doesn't stimulate me mentally because of his immaturity,blames others for everything, bad communication, vicious name calling,irresponsible with money,his mommy spoils him and rescues him out of $ problems so now that's my problem,picks fights w strangers all the time omg that's alot now that I wrote it all down....the GOOD parts are, he rubs my feet all the time and everywhere else, he's very good at oral(I guess he'd have to be w his issues elsewhere)he buys everything which is kinda nice i guess,he tells me he loves me all the time,how gorgeous i am daily as well,very affectionate,wants to be around me 24-7 and could care less about being around his friends,(smothering is i guess another problem),he's sweet after all the nasty fighting and realizes he messed up and apologizes,but arguing every other day sucks....and we just got engaged 6 weeks ago. I guess getting it all out answered my own question...it's not gonna work.I'm not perfect either but I feel like at the end of the day,he's a sweet guy and at times don't know any better, but I don't wanna wait to see if it changes and waste my life away....life's too short i dont know and then i feel like no one's perfect and everyone has their problems.i guess i dont know weather i wanna deal with all the drama,or settle for it,ive accepted alot but feel like there's a thin line between settling and accepting....

Head for the hills, girl! The steroid use not only can cause impotemcy, but also psychotic behavior; therefore, you are in jeopardy, If you decide to break up with him, be very CAREFUL AND HAVE SOME RESOURCE AT YOUR BACK. Guys like this w/ steroid-induced mental problems are capable of extremely violent behavior.

Honestly, if I were you I'd call of the engagement and cut him out of my life until he gets his **** together I'd go out and live my life until I was sure he had grown up then I would take him back.

You really just need to sit him down and talk about it ( if you have that kind of relationship.)
Though all relationships have their flaws, you need to concider if the good outweighs the bad in this one or vise versa. This would conclude as to whether you keep him or not.
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No one is perfect but you will find the perfect guy for you and I don't know he is sorry. Basically he's stubborn, he puts all the blame on you that's not good. You will find a guy who will treat you nice but it isn't him, there are plenty more guys out there to do the good parts not including the bad parts. You need to find yourself a man. He sounds very insecure. I think your just accepting him, do what you know is right and get rid. Good luck:)