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i cant hold on to more than 2 friends, ive lost many close friends in the last couple months to some rumor... but i dont know what that is.
my relationships never last longer than a couple months and im starting to think i am defective in all ways possible. (short term memory loss(kinda), poor grades, etc.)
can you give me any advice on how to get over this hump and how to keep my friends from believing horrible rumors?
i am not a bad person!!!

quite the contrary, in fact :)

i cant hold on to more than 2 friends, ive lost many close friends in the last couple months to some rumor... but i dont know what that is.
my relationships never last longer than a couple months and im starting to think i am defective in all ways possible. (short term memory loss(kinda), poor grades, etc.)
can you give me any advice on how to get over this hump and how to keep my friends from believing horrible rumors?
i am not a bad person!!!

quite the contrary, in fact :)

Your not defective!
If these friends of your believe rumours about you then they're not true friends, and you dont wanna keep them anyway! But to sort this out, find out whos spreading rumours and sort it out with them.
If all your friend loss isnt about the rumours, and is about arguments or moodyness or something like that, explain to your friends that sometimes your moody and snappy or argumentative but you dont mean it, and your not actually mad at them.
With the relationship thing, dont worry! Lots of relationships dont last long, and a few months is actually quite a while compared to some relationships. You just havent found the right guy - he'll come along some day.
Im sure your grades arnt even that bad! Just dont compare yourself to other people with your grades, because thats them and this is you, and you dont have to do as well as them to make you feel good about yourself.
So dont worry, your NOT defective :) x

Get more courage and be a strong person

talk to those people that were once your friends and ASK THEM. Go right up and say: "Listen, buddy. I need your help. What do you think is my problem. What is keeping us from continuing to be pals "? Odds are at least one will talk to you privately and disclose what the problem is.

if you like to keep your friends then do this disapprove the rumors show them that it's all not true.and the person how is telling them is a big fat lire.that's what you do ok.you got to put a stop to them so fine out how is telling what and deal with it.that's the best advice i can give you.your friend fred