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I love my boyfriend to bits but he can't last very long and often ejaculates when we've only been having sex for a few seconds!! does anyone know anyway I can change this?

Any serious answers will be much appreciated, but stupid, immature or insluting ones won't be. Thank you!!!

Honestly, it's purely emotional. Anxiety and nervousness are the two main causes for PE. Get him to relax and boost his confidence as much as possible. Also, he should try wearing thicker-made condoms... not those extra thin ones. Whatever you do, don't use creams as they can cause permanent numbness. good luck

sit down and get yourself aroused. Masturbate how you would normally and when you feel the need to ejaculate, completely ignore the urge (even though its damn hard!) and just stop for a few seconds until the urge passes, carry on masturbating and do the same thing about three times and then finally allow yourself the pleasure of ejaculating.
Do this everytime you masturbate (or if you have a partner that knows of your problem, also get them to do this for you if your comfortable enough)

It will eventually make you last much longer because your body will know to wait for something as good as an orgasm.

Good Luck and happy masturbating ;)

well he probly just gets over excited wen es wit u id really advise u 2 get em 2 go see a doctor its not very normal bt god help u love i feel remorse 4 u i hope u can sort ur sex life ou r just get rid of him and get a real man no offence

well he probly just gets over excited wen es wit u id really advise u 2 get em 2 go see a doctor its not very normal bt god help u love i feel remorse 4 u i hope u can sort ur sex life ou r just get rid of him and get a real man no offence

Hi

The main method of treatment is psychological, sexual, pharmacological therapy. In some cases helps the only one way of treatment, in other cases it necessary to use them in complex.

Psychological therapy.

Speaking with psychologist often can be very useful. Patient can come to consult the doctor along with his partner. Specialist will help to release stress and to improve quality of sexual life.

Sexual therapy.

There are some exercises that help to learn to delay ejaculation, that can be done alone or with the partner.

1.

Compression method. Partner stimulates your penis with her hand until his erection. When she feels that ejaculation is coming she compresses penis head for several seconds. Erection is coming down partially. In 30 seconds partner stimulates penis again. It should be repeated several times and finally ends with ejaculation.
2.

Interrupter method. Partner stimulates penis until ejaculation. At this moment she stops stimulation and waits until the man cools down. Then again she starts to eat penis with her hands. It repeats until ejaculation.

Pharmacological therapy.

1.

Antidepressants. Drug side effect of some medicines belonging to that group (paroxetine, flouxetine) is orgasm delay. That is why they can be used on doctor’s orders to treat premature ejaculation. If those medicines do not help then doctor prescribes another type of antidepressant called clomipramine.
2.

Creams containing local anesthetic (for example, lidocaine) are used for many years to treat premature ejaculation. Cream application on head of penis opiates sensation and delays ejaculation. Before sex cream should be washed off to avoid its contact with woman’s genital organs.

Dear

There is a very important point in ur Boyfriend PE case that you are help ful to cure his PE condition which means that you must be encouraging in sex to stay as long as he could. But many times we have seen that such patients becomes anxious and this anxiety even lowers down the ejaculation time further more to detoriate the case. This makes the situation bit complicated as now we have to regain the confidence of the patient so that he can match your expectations. This definately shall need a doctors help as in such cases SELF help goes vain.
There is a threapy called SCREW threapy which we suggest to such patients which includes few short term medicines and psychological counselling and training so that his ejacualtion time raises considerably. Most patients respond to this treatment very well

Dr Anil Kumar
Specialist Sexual Medicine
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com
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